Women Fake Orgasm to Reassure Men’s Sexual Ego

Kinsey’s research revealed that some women orgasm by masturbating alone. Previously no one had any idea that women might be capable of orgasm at all. Yet generations of men had no difficulty achieving orgasm from intercourse. The belief in female orgasm with a lover is a modern fantasy that reassures men of women’s continuing willingness to offer intercourse.

Men say they want to be a good lover but all their assumptions rest on the fact that a woman can orgasm with a lover. This fantasy causes women to fake. Some women realise that a man’s sexual performance is vital to his emotional well-being. If a woman wants to give her lover the satisfaction of assuming that, through intercourse or other means, he has provided the stimulation she needs to achieve orgasm, then she is obliged to fake.

Women learn that if a man cannot find release via intercourse and the sense that he has satisfied his lover, his whole world falls apart. The problem with honesty over sex is that men want regular intercourse regardless of a woman’s much lower interest. A man needs to be aroused by and to feel accepted in his sexual relationship. He relies on erotic turn-ons even if these are only in his head. So women fake orgasm to keep men happy.

Men appear to have an almost infantile need to believe in their fantasies of arousing women. Woman, who love men, haven’t got the heart to disillusion them. Even if women tell men that sex doesn’t provide them with the same pleasure, men just don’t get it. A man’s sexual ego means that for his whole life he can believe (in spite of all the contrary evidence) that the women in his life wanted sex just as much as he did every time.

The fact that every animal in nature mates by the male mounting the female does not persuade him. The fact that women have to be paid to have sex does not persuade him. The fact that women want a relationship, probably a legal one, to offer sex over the longer term does not persuade him. A man never questions why it is the male role to keep a woman happy. This is because it is self-evident what a woman needs to do to keep a man happy. Nevertheless, a man needs to believe that a woman wants sex as much as he does so that he can be reassured of an on-going and regular sexual outlet.

A man assumes that a woman should tell him what he needs to do. It never seems to occur to men that women don’t know. Stimulation is easy enough to supply once a person is aroused. The difficult issue is arousal. No one can name any female erotic turn-ons. If a woman is unenthusiastic about intercourse which does nothing to excite her, a man takes this as a personal rejection. Instead of accepting that women do not experience sexual pleasure as men do, his focus is his concern about satisfying his own needs.

In some senses, men never grow up. Women have to face the deceit of sex as soon as they lose their virginity. Rather than face their own fears, men pass on the taboo of sexual inadequacy to women. In addition to the other disadvantages of sex that are attributed to women (abortion, prostitution and illegitimate children), women are also labelled as frigid if they do not fake orgasm. It is totally insensitive of men to blame women for not enjoying the same pleasure that men do from sexual activity. This is like blaming a blind man because he cannot see some spectacular view that you appreciate.

It’s pretty cruel to promise someone that they can expect to experience something amazing that is, in reality, totally lacking in both erotic turn-ons and physical stimulation. This is the disappointment women face if they approach intercourse with their heads full of the fantasies our society promotes. Saying that women can hope to experience exactly what men do from sex is propaganda spread by those who are trying to make money.

Most of the time a woman is only likely to offer intercourse where a man makes all the effort. A woman may offer to pleasure a man occasionally. She may also be willing to let him pleasure her sometimes. A woman needs to be in the mood to be willing to give a man the time to do this. This is likely to occur sporadically and relies on many factors such as a woman’s general state of happiness and the state of the relationship with her lover.

If sex is purely a thrust and grunt affair that is quickly dealt with, a woman may need to provide little engagement. The average time a man lasts (from penetration until ejaculation) is only two minutes. But men who enjoy eroticism like to extend the time they devote to sex by offering foreplay. This makes sex more onerous for a woman. It is not just the time involved but also the need for a woman to spend longer being part of the activity.

Faking orgasm provides an easy way for a woman to speed up sex and get it over with as quickly as possible. If a woman lies (by faking orgasm) to a man he finds her hugely attractive. If she’s honest then he finds another woman. What do men expect? Some women consider faking to be humiliating and frankly ridiculous. Supposedly 50-80% of women fake. Just because a woman doesn’t fake, it doesn’t mean she has an orgasm. Many women feel humiliated by the idea of making all that ridiculous and unconvincing noise.

She knows how personally you are going to take it when she can’t orgasm, and it makes her dread having sex because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and then feel even more inadequate. (Sophie Martin 2013)

Choosing a Bathrobe For Men and Women

Bathrobes are primarily worn after taking a bath, but they could also be used for other purposes. They are also used for spa sessions, swimming pool or when having fun on a beach. These pieces of clothing have also become part of fashion already, commonly used for intimate moments with a loved one or a private evening dinner. Bathrobes come in wide variety of designs, materials, color and sizes. Other bathrobes are designed for a specific purpose.

There are several differences between the bathrobes for men and women. There are certain distinctive features to women’s robes compared to men’s. Deciding on what kind of bathrobe to buy should be based on an individual’s requirement including other factors including the size, design and the comfort it can provide.

In general, bathrobes for men feature the simplest design with colors like blue, white and black. They are usually made from heavy fabrics and are wider and longer compared to women’s bathrobes. The most popular designs used for men’s include waves, zigzag and printed in block style. There are also variants made from light materials ideal for places with a warm climate.

Choosing a women’s bathrobe is more of a challenge since there are more variants compared to men’s bathrobes. Women have different needs which should be considered in deciding which bathrobe to choose. Among the deciding factors include the intended purpose, materials used and the length. Let us go into some helpful tips in choosing the bathrobe which suits your needs.

One of the most important factors to consider is the purpose or the intended use for the women’s bathrobe. For general purpose bathrobe, you just have to consider what kind of material was used.

One common use of bathrobe for women is when they are applying some make up and brushing their hair. The bathrobe serves as a protection for their dress from being stained by make up. For such purpose, it is ideal to choose a bathrobe long enough to cover up to the ankles.

Other women also use a different type of bathrobes for romantic nights with their partner. This type of bathrobe is shorter exposing some skin making a woman look seductive and sexy. The most common material used for this bathrobe is satin and silk. The most popular colors for this wardrobe are red and pink.

Luxurious bathrobes are also available. These are made of the best fabrics and are very comfortable to use. They are lighter and softer compared to ordinary bathrobes. It features different designs with more elegant prints. The common material used is silk. This is a very expensive type of cloth.

If you are low on budget you can also find less expensive bathrobes but still prove to be very comfortable. You can shop for a bathrobe of your choice in almost all department stores. You can also shop online and choose any of the bathrobes with the style and design of your choice.

Whatever purposes you need you will surely find the bathrobe which will suit your needs and preference but make sure to consider the most important factors so you can decide accordingly. It is also important to choose which one provides the best comfort since you will be using your bathrobe more often.

If you want to have to have a unique design of your choice, you can go for a custom made bathrobe. You can have your bathrobe tailored according to your size, color and design. You can also choose what materials to use with your bathrobe.

Because of its functionality, bathrobes are ideal gifts for friends and loved ones. These are usually given out as wedding or anniversary presents.

Men’s Snowboard Boots – Should Women Even Consider Wearing Them?

Even though women’s gear has become more and more common in snowboarding over the years, it’s still a lot easier to find men’s snowboard boots. That’s because there are just more of them. Snowboarding was originally a sport dominated by men and that means that some of the more established brands have been churning out men’s gear a lot more than women’s gear. A lot of women can get frustrated by this and might consider buying men’s gear for any number of reasons. But there are a few things to consider before buying a men’s boot for a woman’s foot.

It can be very tempting for many girls to buy a men’s snowboard boot. For whatever reason, many companies think that girls only want pink butterflies and purple stars on their gear. If you’re looking for something a little more gender neutral, men’s gear is where you’re most likely to turn. Men’s gear also tends to have a wider range in terms of function. Almost every company offers more men’s snowboard boots than women’s; some companies even have twice as many men’s boots! Sometimes that lack of selection can make finding the right boot almost impossible for a female snowboarder.

So just get a men’s snowboard boot, right? Not so fast. Unless you have feet and legs suited to men’s boots, you might regret your decision to buy boots made for the other gender. At the anatomical level, women’s feet and legs are quite a bit different than men’s. One of the biggest problems with getting a men’s boot is that women tend to have narrower feet and may experience significant heel lift if they step into a men’s boot. That can cause not only a performance problem, but pain and discomfort. In addition, women tend to have lower calf muscles than men. The higher back on a men’s boot may dig right into the middle of the calf muscle on a woman and cause quite a lot of irritation during a full day of riding.

But the differences between the foot and the boot aren’t the only reason you should reconsider buying a boot outside your gender. The way the boots fit with the bindings is crucial. If you have women’s bindings, but a men’s snowboard boot, you may have trouble getting the boot to fit in the binding properly. This is because boots are made to fit specifically with bindings and mixing men’s and women’s gear can throw off the fit. Not only might you have poor performance, but you could be putting yourself at a safety risk if your boots don’t fit into your bindings.

The truth is that it really isn’t the end of the world if you’re a woman who wants to buy some men’s boots. But you may not get all the fun out of your experience that you would if you had a boot better designed for your foot. It’s always a good idea to buy the boot that was designed the best for you. If you’re still set on getting a men’s snowboard boot, you may want to shop around a little longer to see if you can’t find a women’s boot that you like.