Women Fake Orgasm to Reassure Men’s Sexual Ego

Kinsey’s research revealed that some women orgasm by masturbating alone. Previously no one had any idea that women might be capable of orgasm at all. Yet generations of men had no difficulty achieving orgasm from intercourse. The belief in female orgasm with a lover is a modern fantasy that reassures men of women’s continuing willingness to offer intercourse.

Men say they want to be a good lover but all their assumptions rest on the fact that a woman can orgasm with a lover. This fantasy causes women to fake. Some women realise that a man’s sexual performance is vital to his emotional well-being. If a woman wants to give her lover the satisfaction of assuming that, through intercourse or other means, he has provided the stimulation she needs to achieve orgasm, then she is obliged to fake.

Women learn that if a man cannot find release via intercourse and the sense that he has satisfied his lover, his whole world falls apart. The problem with honesty over sex is that men want regular intercourse regardless of a woman’s much lower interest. A man needs to be aroused by and to feel accepted in his sexual relationship. He relies on erotic turn-ons even if these are only in his head. So women fake orgasm to keep men happy.

Men appear to have an almost infantile need to believe in their fantasies of arousing women. Woman, who love men, haven’t got the heart to disillusion them. Even if women tell men that sex doesn’t provide them with the same pleasure, men just don’t get it. A man’s sexual ego means that for his whole life he can believe (in spite of all the contrary evidence) that the women in his life wanted sex just as much as he did every time.

The fact that every animal in nature mates by the male mounting the female does not persuade him. The fact that women have to be paid to have sex does not persuade him. The fact that women want a relationship, probably a legal one, to offer sex over the longer term does not persuade him. A man never questions why it is the male role to keep a woman happy. This is because it is self-evident what a woman needs to do to keep a man happy. Nevertheless, a man needs to believe that a woman wants sex as much as he does so that he can be reassured of an on-going and regular sexual outlet.

A man assumes that a woman should tell him what he needs to do. It never seems to occur to men that women don’t know. Stimulation is easy enough to supply once a person is aroused. The difficult issue is arousal. No one can name any female erotic turn-ons. If a woman is unenthusiastic about intercourse which does nothing to excite her, a man takes this as a personal rejection. Instead of accepting that women do not experience sexual pleasure as men do, his focus is his concern about satisfying his own needs.

In some senses, men never grow up. Women have to face the deceit of sex as soon as they lose their virginity. Rather than face their own fears, men pass on the taboo of sexual inadequacy to women. In addition to the other disadvantages of sex that are attributed to women (abortion, prostitution and illegitimate children), women are also labelled as frigid if they do not fake orgasm. It is totally insensitive of men to blame women for not enjoying the same pleasure that men do from sexual activity. This is like blaming a blind man because he cannot see some spectacular view that you appreciate.

It’s pretty cruel to promise someone that they can expect to experience something amazing that is, in reality, totally lacking in both erotic turn-ons and physical stimulation. This is the disappointment women face if they approach intercourse with their heads full of the fantasies our society promotes. Saying that women can hope to experience exactly what men do from sex is propaganda spread by those who are trying to make money.

Most of the time a woman is only likely to offer intercourse where a man makes all the effort. A woman may offer to pleasure a man occasionally. She may also be willing to let him pleasure her sometimes. A woman needs to be in the mood to be willing to give a man the time to do this. This is likely to occur sporadically and relies on many factors such as a woman’s general state of happiness and the state of the relationship with her lover.

If sex is purely a thrust and grunt affair that is quickly dealt with, a woman may need to provide little engagement. The average time a man lasts (from penetration until ejaculation) is only two minutes. But men who enjoy eroticism like to extend the time they devote to sex by offering foreplay. This makes sex more onerous for a woman. It is not just the time involved but also the need for a woman to spend longer being part of the activity.

Faking orgasm provides an easy way for a woman to speed up sex and get it over with as quickly as possible. If a woman lies (by faking orgasm) to a man he finds her hugely attractive. If she’s honest then he finds another woman. What do men expect? Some women consider faking to be humiliating and frankly ridiculous. Supposedly 50-80% of women fake. Just because a woman doesn’t fake, it doesn’t mean she has an orgasm. Many women feel humiliated by the idea of making all that ridiculous and unconvincing noise.

She knows how personally you are going to take it when she can’t orgasm, and it makes her dread having sex because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and then feel even more inadequate. (Sophie Martin 2013)

Men’s Fashion: The Difference Between Trends and Style

The relative complexities of women’s and men’s fashion

Both men and women can feel the pressures of keeping their wardrobe up-to-date and in season, yet men’s fashion often feels a lot less complicated. Of course, for both genders, outfits and fashion choices can be equally as intricate, and there are many ‘trendy’ items that can quickly become fashion faux pas – who can say they often see people walking around in 70s flares? On the other hand, men’s fashion has a few staple items which will exist forever – which man is going to look out of place with a good-quality, tailored suit, for example? Choose classic cuts, colours and fabrics and you’ll never look out-of-place.

Why classic men’s fashion is timeless

The classic man’s suit has barely changed for over a hundred years. True, there are several varieties for different occasions, but they are all common in their pursuit of a smart, sharp look for the wearer. The great thing about classic fashion for men is that it is effortlessly stylish; effortlessly cool. A well-groomed gentleman will almost always look his sharpest in a well-tailored suit, and this is a testament to the design of such clothing. A suit will be worn to work in many careers because of the professional look it affords to the wearer, instilling a sense of respect and trust. Equally a suit will be worn to many social occasions, such as a tuxedo to a black-tie event. This incredible versatility that allows suits to be worn in almost all occasions is what gives it its timeless edge and a permanent place in men’s fashion.

Contemporary trends in classic men’s fashion

Whilst classic men’s styles will never be replaced, it is interesting to note that shifts in men’s fashion trends have brought certain classic garments back into fashion. The popularity of vintage clothing, particularly, has brought back a wide-variety of classic styles into men’s wardrobes, such as that of the dandy gentleman. ‘Dandy’ is a term used to refer to men who dress in a classic yet extravagant way, placing importance on appearance and acting in a refined manner. This trend for almost ‘over-the-top’ classic fashion for men is evident from events such as the ‘Tweed Run’, where men and women of all ages dress in notably Victorian-style attire and take to the streets on vintage bicycles – with many of the men sporting impeccable mustaches! This is just one of many examples of evidence displaying the resurgence of such styles. There are also numerous blogs online which focus on gentlemanly style – such as ‘The Dandy Project’ and ‘Dandyism’ – as well as entire websites such as ‘The Art of Manliness’ dedicated to providing articles on classic men’s fashion and grooming.

In summary, whilst certain facets of classic men’s fashion can be brought back as new trends, the fundamental garments that they are based on will never slip out of fashion.

“All it takes are a few simple outfits. And there’s one secret – the simpler the better.” – Cary Grant

Benefit of Men’s Pouch Boxers

Designers have understood that every person has its requirements because of which they have started working on designs of pouch hence you can purchase according to your preference.Men’s pouch underwear or boxers consist of the opening and the pouch so that one gets easy access to the manhood. Not every style of men’s boxer consists of a pouch.

Another reason for having a pouch in boxers is due to better support and comfort, also is good for your manhood enhancement. The chances of getting lucky increases due to the sexy look of pouch boxers.

These boxers are great to reshape your front profile without hampering your comfort zone and its lifting technology in men’s pouch underwear beautifully uplifts your manhood upwards and outwards. The shape of pouch underwear is designed in such a way that your problems such as sticking, squashing and sweating won’t happen to you. bulge enhancing, extra-large, contour and anatomically correct pouch are some of its examples. Bulge enhancing are further divided into two parts, one is lifting pouch and second is a padded pouch.

Bulge enhancing underwear

As the name says enhancing pouches so whether it’s about increasing package size or creating depth or either reshaping the front profile into a larger and fuller shape, you need to wear enhancing pouches.

Due to its push up technology, lifting pouches are highly famous among men. Your package is easily lifted in both the ways, upwards and outwards and don’t forget to support your male genitals.

Slings, C-ring and U-shaped panels are the ones which are widely used.

Next, we have padded pouches and these are the most comfortable ones, after all, they come with soft foam padding that you will find in the front of the pouch. Padded pouches are known for their protection hence these are highly used in sports underwear. Don’t expect enhancement from this range of men’s underwear because their hard pads are specially designed for protection.

Contour boxers come with a vertical seam in the middle of the crotch that gives support and lifts which creates a D-shaped pouch hence it’s more defined than flat front panel pouch. Men with well-grown manhood can consider wearing them as they offer more space at the front as compared to other pouch style boxers.

When your package feels uncomfortable in those tiny padded pouches, I guess it’s high time that you switch to extra large pouch men’s underwear. Note that the size of the pouch varies with brands, for example, the size of the pouch in pouch boxers will be larger in American brands as compared to European or any other brand.

Being a well-endowed guy your first preference should be extra-large men’s pouch underwear so that you won’t feel squashed and get an extra room for comfort. No more sticking and squashing.

Anatomically correct ones are also called as natural pouch underwear which is crafted to offer extra comfort. The cut of this pouch makes the package look longer and allows it to dangle naturally that any squashing, sticking, sweating and chafing issues. Men with the smaller package should avoid wearing them as it won’t fill the whole pouch hence you will feel loose and unsupported. It will look empty and wrinkled.

If you are wondering which style is the best for you so that completely depends on your preference. For example, if it’s about enhancing your shape and size, enhancing ones are perfect. For your everyday activities, contour or anatomically correct pouches sounds perfect. Anatomically ones are good for your comfort and for well-endowed guys, extra-large ones are right.

Although all styles of underwear are great but to gain the best out of them, you should know how to pick up wisely.